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Meditate on this statement from The Resolutions of Jonathan Edwards:
21. Resolved, never to do anything, which if I should see in another, I should count a just occasion to despise him for, or to think any way the more meanly of him.
You can check out George Claghorn’s Introduction to Jonathan Edwards’ Resolutions over at Yale’s Jonathan Edwards Center and download a free pdf of the resolutions on the bottom of the page.